Important is that you know that you look better, you feel better and, of course, the weight is not going to fall off over night. What others say shouldn't dictate your feelings nor hinder your progress. You're on this journey for your life; a much healthier and happier life for yourself. Just imagine what they'll say the next time they see you. You're doing great! Keep tracking.
03 Nov 18 by member: Fartblossem
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I really don’t understand people who feel the need to comment on others weight fluctuations......like they’re helping you or something. “Oh, you know what, I wouldn’t have noticed I gained 50lbs if it wasn’t for you, thank you sooo much!”🙄
They showed you their true colors.
You’re doing awesome! Keep up the great work!
03 Nov 18 by member: LeiLei84
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I've gone up and down soooo.much
One time I quit smoking, drinking and eating, lost 50lb. Still don't drink or smoke but I gained the 50lbs back plus some. If I lost the 50lb my prize was to be a jet ski. I did it but he didn't buy the jet ski!
03 Nov 18 by member: fatbut1948
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I use negativity as a motivator! You can do it!
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Screw tgem, you are doing this for you, and well done on your progress so far! Xxx
03 Nov 18 by member: Missy motivated
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More than likely those same people won't compliment you when you reach your goal weight. Do it for your own well being...
03 Nov 18 by member: John10251
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Sometimes damaged people are bent on damaging us... I'd be tempted to say, "And, you used to be more subtle and empathetic - what happened?"
03 Nov 18 by member: From371to184
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Ahhh, the jerks are running rampant!
03 Nov 18 by member: Erquiaga
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What you are doing is for YOU, not for THEM . You have nothing to be ashamed of, nor do you need to prove anything to them. You are better that they are, take care of yourself for you! Some people just love to tear others down. You have the support of all of us at FS. 😊
03 Nov 18 by member: BlueFront
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Good one, 184! Try to replace the memory of that nastiness with your own triumph! 20 pounds loss takes strength and dedication, the kind not everyone is capable of, but you are! Chin up and push on! We got you!
03 Nov 18 by member: Em GI
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people who are forever thin just don't get it
04 Nov 18 by member: fatbut1948
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Adversity is what launches us into success. Just take their comnents as motivation. You will be at 165lbs before you know it and fitter and healthier.
That said, some people are so fing rude. Jeeze!
09 Nov 18 by member: HomeSlice18
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I always try to tell myself that I do look good right now. My weight does not define me
10 Nov 18 by member: liv001
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Yes liv001! Wholeheartedly agree❤️
10 Nov 18 by member: LeiLei84
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