BK2526's Journal, 07 Feb 20

What I think...


The overall trouble I find in people losing weight and maintaining is a few factors.

1. A program not sustainable for a lifestyle change. If you’re constantly telling yourself you can’t have this or can’t have that then I don’t find it as a change that can be kept long term. This is only my observation of people who yo-yo. If you are one of the exceptions who can stay low carb or whatever program you’re on forever then a sincere kudos. I couldn’t.
2. Disappointment! The first few months you can achieve HUGE losses and I have witnessed people get discouraged by the slow trickling downward of weight after those massive drops and give up. It’s easy for us to overlook the fact that those small drops are actually the more impressive ones. That means you’re continuing to do the right things most of the time. (If not all the time). This means you’re getting healthier. Example: I do cardio and I used to see these 1k+ calories burned in a 70 minute session at 3.0-3.5 speed and now there are times where I hit 700-800 sometimes only 400-500 with higher speed of 4.0-5.0. Sure, the number is smaller and it’s a bummer to look at but then I remember it’s because I was 220+ and now I’m in my 160’s. Plus I remember that any movement is better than what I used to do prior to getting serious about my health which was not much of anything. Will I lose 15+ pounds a month like I did in the beginning... heck no! And that is a good thing. Every ounce down is a win. It’s a balance of food and exercise.
3. Chartoholic! (One size doesn’t fit all). Don’t take the guideline for height and weight charts as anything more than that. A guideline. Sometimes we find our comfortable weight is a bit higher than those charts or a bit lower. Those don’t factor in muscle or body composition. I’m a smaller waist with thicker thighs kind of gal with some muscle. My comfortable body weight may not be the 120ish range, anymore. It may be 145. It may be 130. It might be 150.
4. Not being flexible! Not physically (although that’s a good thing too). Tweak your program. The calories I need at this stage is vastly different than when I first started because of my workouts. I actually need more calories now to continue losing weight at a healthy rate and to maintain the energy levels for a successful workout. If I have a week off at the gym I adjust my calories back down. I can’t eat the same calories as I do when working out.
5. Pushing too hard and too fast. If you go crazy hard at the gym when you first start it’s easy to burn out and lose motivation. I started low and worked my way up on every exercise.
6. Take advice as just that. Advice! It’s not bullying. (Although I get that it does happen). I’m not a guru. I don’t know it all. We share what works and doesn’t work for us. Why? Because it might help someone. These have only been my opinions and observations. Take them as you see fit or not at all. You can disagree with them or have observed something entirely different. 😊

View Diet Calendar, 07 February 2020:
1177 kcal Fat: 54.45g | Prot: 70.11g | Carbs: 103.06g.   Breakfast: Starbucks Skinny Mocha (Venti). Lunch: Kroger Baby Carrots, Mission Street Tacos Yellow Corn Tortillas, Buffalo Chicken Casserole, Ground Beef (70% Lean / 30% Fat, Patty, Cooked, Pan-Broiled). Dinner: Papa John's 14" Thin Crust Pizza - Pepperoni. more...
2799 kcal Exercise: Weight Training (moderate) - 44 minutes, Treadmill - 1 hour and 11 minutes, Resting - 14 hours and 5 minutes, Sleeping - 8 hours. more...

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Thoughtful, well written post. Thank you That is pretty accurate in my case. I've started the movement process because even though I'm at my goal weight, I'm not as fit as I want to be. I'm not going balls to the walls at the gym. Any movement is better than what I was doing. Progress of any kind is a win.  
07 Feb 20 by member: tatauu22
Good stuff! The one that always gets me is when people overreact to their weight gains and losses. If you’re really upset that you gained two pounds and can’t figure it out, don’t be surprised that you lost two pounds and don’t know why either. 
07 Feb 20 by member: love2educate
agree  
07 Feb 20 by member: adamevegod1
Add #7 Don't expect to see the same results implementing the same strategies that work for people 20/30/40 years younger than you. My 59 year old self can't even dream of competing with my 40 year old self and the same could be said if you kick the ration back another 20 years. I do (I think) exceptionally well for my age, but I know better than to get caught up in the performances and successes of the younger crowd, even though I blow the average 20 year old male out of the water--lol. Pay attention to the success of people much like you. 
07 Feb 20 by member: adamevegod1
Great post. Good thoughts. Liking this journal with a thumbs up!👍👍 
07 Feb 20 by member: FullaBella
Adam, I look at the 20 somethings at the gym and think, “enjoy that while you can”. If I tried to go like they do, an arm or leg would fall off.  
07 Feb 20 by member: love2educate
It's hard to find a balance. I'm thinner legs, hips, and rump....with a bigger belly. My challenge is keeping muscle in my legs so they don't wither away. I'm eating more protein than I originally planned, but my body needs it and my monthly bloodwork thanks me for it. I'm sure I'm going to have to keep working on things as I go. Nice observations. Made me think! 🤗😁👍 
07 Feb 20 by member: binkytexas
I used to do the keto stuff to make weigh ins for weightlifting. Id lose 25lb a week then put it right back on. So when I started trying to slim down post athletics, I did keto. That is not something I could maintain for more than a few weeks. I’d lose a ton of weigh but the next year I’d be heavier. I’d get discouraged when I hit my first plateau and stop. Now I’m focused on 2 or 3 lb a week for the year. Just lowering my calories to a normal human level lol. 
07 Feb 20 by member: that bahs
It’s true, the larger you are you can lose incredibly fast! I was dropping Ike 12 lbs a month at first. Then it slows down. It is frustrating but it is a wonderful thing. The slower it comes off, it will likely stay off and you have to work for it♥️ 
07 Feb 20 by member: jcmama777
Thanks all for the support and reading my long winded message. Sometimes I get in my own head and need to just write. Lol. As I said, it’s only things I think or have witnessed. And I totally get the balance struggle. I’m in constant learning mode and tweaking when I need. We’ll all just keep at it 💪😊 
07 Feb 20 by member: BK2526
And great addition AdamEveGod1! I do wish I could travel back and tell my 20 year old self to appreciate what I had.  
07 Feb 20 by member: BK2526
Is it advice if I am told I am doing it wrong or is it judgement? I feel attacked (I do not mean by this post. I get what you are trying to do) What is the base for saying I am wrong. That you cannot do it? So??? Very few fat people who lose, keep it off so there is no wrong or right here (in my opinion)  
07 Feb 20 by member: liv001
Liv, good question. Do I think it’s judgement or advice... it depends on how it’s written, the content, and how I read it or into it. 100 different people can interpret 1 post 100 different ways. I can also honestly say I could read the same thing two days in a row and have completely different reactions to it depending on how I’m feeling. I take most things with a grain of salt so not much bothers me in terms of how I’m critiqued on here (or anywhere, for that matter). I listen to people or read what’s written and take what I want from it or nothing at all. Let them tell me I’m wrong and pass judgment or offer advice. Either way doesn’t matter much. I don’t answer to them. This my journey. How I’m feeling about my journey is the only feeling that truly matters. Not the feelings of those cheering me on and not the naysayers. (Sorry, that sounded harsher than I mean and thank you to those cheering me on and to the naysayers, as well. You push me harder too.) I will say I am sorry that anyone is ever feeling attacked. Whether or not I see it as a legit event taking place, it’s a legit feeling someone is having. To be fair, I rarely pay attention when it moves away from sparring and disagreeing opinions or research (which is good, in my opinion) and switches into nonsensical spats. I tend to have faith that most people mean well on here. While the delivery is rough around the edges, I have to believe they don’t mean to come across as attacking. And for those simply being mean spirited, I ignore.  
08 Feb 20 by member: BK2526
We each have to do what's works for us, and good job, on your observation and input, and very helpful information you sharing thank you, and keep up your good work. 
08 Feb 20 by member: Retta Smith
Thanks Itsy for those thoughts. It is very much how I am approaching it or at least trying to approach it. 
08 Feb 20 by member: liv001
This is exactly my philosophy. I’ve tried it all; wls, 16:8, 5/2, egg diets, lchf, keto, 3 day military diets, oatmeal diets, not eating after 6, skipping breakfast, adding butter to my coffee. Anyhow. I settled for counting calories, balanced macros. First I lost fast. Then I didn’t lose at all. Now I lose, I gain, I live my life and move on. I found balance and harmony, I don’t restrict, I monitor. I thought I wanted to be 169 but may be good at 179 after all I am 5’10”. Body keeps changing with lifting weights. Some days I burn 300 kcal in 30 min lifting, sometimes I burn 600 running 30 min as long as I move it’s victory. Again we all have to experiment and hope we all find the “forever” method. My forever method MUST include bread, wine and fruit 😂😂😂💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻 Great post!!! 
08 Feb 20 by member: Swedishblondie
Good points Blondie. I think counting calories is an actual education. Fad or exclusionary diets don’t teach anything. Learning how to eat is the key. And 🥖 🍷 🍰 are also key 😁 
08 Feb 20 by member: love2educate

     
 

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