Lisa Online's Journal, 16 Apr 11

Finding Your Tribe
Your Allies on Life’s Journey

The people who become members of your tribe are in the world waiting and you are destined to find them.

Part of being human is the search for an individual identity. Bound to this strong need to establish a unique persona, however, is an equally intense desire for acceptance. It is when we find our individual tribes that both are satisfied. Our tribe members are those people who accept us as we are without reservation and gladly accompany us on our journeys of evolution. Among them, we feel free to be our imperfect selves, to engage unabashedly in the activities we enjoy, and to express our vulnerabilities by relying on our tribe for support. We feel comfortable investing our time and energy in the members of our tribe, and are equally comfortable allowing them to invest their resources in our development.

The individuals who eventually become members of your unique tribe are out there in the wide world waiting for you. You are destined to find them, one by one, as you move through life. Sometimes your own efforts will put you in contact with your future tribe members. At other times, circumstances beyond your control will play a role in helping you connect with your tribe. If you look about you and discover that you are already allied with a wonderful and supportive tribe, remember that there are likely many members of your tribe you have not yet met. On the other hand, if you feel you are still living outside of your tribe, broadening your horizons can help you find your tribe members.

However your life develops after you come together with your tribe, you can be assured that its members will stand at your side. On the surface, your tribe may seem to be nothing more than a loose-knit group of friends and acquaintances to whom you ally yourself. Yet when you look deeper, you will discover that your tribe grounds you and provides you with a sense of community that ultimately fulfills many of your most basic human needs.

From Daily OM...thank you for being in my life as I truly appreciate this FS Tribe!

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TOWANDA!!!!!!!!!
68.0 kg Lost so far: 0.5 kg.    Still to go: 6.8 kg.    Diet followed: Reasonably Well.

View Diet Calendar, 16 April 2011:
1169 kcal Fat: 28.89g | Prot: 61.29g | Carbs: 172.95g.   Breakfast: flax, elite, yoplait smoothie. Lunch: ensure. Dinner: ensure. Snacks/Other: banana, Muscle Health Strawberries 'n Cream Shake. more...
Losing 3.2 kg a Week

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Comments 
OMMMMMMMMMMMMM.......Please don't vote me Off Lisa....I'll be a Good Tribal Boy....... 
16 Apr 11 by member: thecoach
LOL..Caoch, you are a SURVIVOR, and show the natives that they don't have to be too good either:) TOWANDA!!!!  
16 Apr 11 by member: Lisa Online
Awesome Lisa! 
16 Apr 11 by member: chattycathy1955
Good morning, Lisa! Thanks for your insight on "finding your tribe"! And your loving & kind buddy support as always! Have a wonderful weekend, my friend!:) 
16 Apr 11 by member: happynow
We're an ever changing tribe, I miss my buddies on here from 3 years ago. I just hope some of us are still friends years from now, most people are so busy with daily life even getting on here every few days gets to be too much. One must NOT give up with the weight loss problem - it is solvable and I need to lose again; I lost initially on here and all of us will do well to be strict with ourselves and stick with our 'tribe' on here - if they're friends they're helping us get to and stick to our goals... 
16 Apr 11 by member: GlennM
When our friends are there then everythings all Right, with friends together we've got what we need to succeed:) Thanks Buddies as your friendship and time is valuable, a precious gift:) TOWANDA!!!! 
16 Apr 11 by member: Lisa Online
SO TRUE Lisa!!! I've had this discussion before when living in the inner city. Great topic! 
16 Apr 11 by member: RubyRedSox
Beautiful excerpt Lisa - thanks!!! Feeling all warm inside and smiling ear to ear. Totally agree that deep down a tribe person grounds us and fulfills many of our basic human needs. Honoured and privileged to be standing by your side. :)) 
16 Apr 11 by member: Bible Bliss
The FS Tribe rocks!!! 
16 Apr 11 by member: gizmonel
Great post...thanks for being a part of my "tribe" your love, support encouragement is deeply appreciated! Have a wonderful day. Hope all is well with you, and your day is filled with love and laughter.  
17 Apr 11 by member: Raven46
Happy Palm Sunday, Lisa! Spring is here at last, even here where it's freezing and windy out with a spattering of rain... 
17 Apr 11 by member: GlennM
Thank you Glen, Palm Sunday is a time for reflection and much gratitude for forgiveness is Loves greatest healer....I am off to the tax office again and am thankful for all the opportunites, family and friends my life brings. TOWANDA!!!!  
17 Apr 11 by member: Lisa Online
Have a good Easter season, I hope things work out with your cat. I live in an apartment so nobody can claim an animal of mine did something when it didn't... 
17 Apr 11 by member: GlennM

     
 

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