abbadabba's Journal, 04 Aug 10

Thank you to Dawn001 for a new attitude - I am trying to be intuitive, and caring for myself. I am reading the book: Eat, Pray, Love - I think it will be my guide for what to do for the next day-by-day stretch of my life!

Eat - good food, just enough, being good to me because that is what I want - I am using less willpower with food choices because there isn't any decision to be made if I am eating right!

Pray - I am contemplating finding a church, but my cousin teaches a self-actualization class and if he doesn't have one coming up then I could get him to work through the course one-on-one.

Love - well, I am hoping this will work out too! thanks to Chatty for the recommendation of plenty of fish . com - people on there seem friendly. My friends plan on helping me "network" - they are so sweet.

I have Gratitude for: my friends!!!

For C - who brought her speakers for daughter's party, and helped get the music going - really really loud!
For A - who came because she was nosy about the party venue, but also cleaned up all night
For R - who dressed up even though her good dress was itchy! and who went home to change and then went and bought candles for the cake because the birthday girl and her mom forgot candles!
For B and CC - who came early and set up and decorated too.


Daughter had a wonderful time - ice cream cake and presents! Lots of friends and they all danced all the time! By the end I was done with the party and then she went out for some food with a carload of her still perky friends! We decorated in neon colors with silver star accents - color tablecloths and stars hanging off the lights. The real decoration was the dress-up by the girls and boys, though! Very pretty - the party was semi formal. Food: chips, salsa, pigs-in-a-blanket, mini quiches, and fruit and veggie platters. We had a lot of food leftover and I thought we wouldn't have half enough!

I am working on days this week, and back out at night next week - then maybe days after that? I know the night project is only going to last til mid-September at the latest which is doable - then back on days and probably on a contract for drawbridges. That will be a great project! It's inspecting repairs, not building new, but still, it's what I do for work.

Hang in there all!

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Abba you sounnd great. It really sounds like you have made a decision and moving in a new direction. Good for you. I'm glad the party was a success and great that you had help with prep and clean up. I hope you have great luck on plenty of fish!  
04 Aug 10 by member: chattycathy1955
Yes, I agree with Cathy... you sound very good. "I am using less willpower with food choices because there isn't any decision to be made if I am eating right!" Hmmm... Gives me pause. ;-) I want to see that next weigh-in whenever you are ready abba. Have a good evening buddy! 
05 Aug 10 by member: information
I like what you said about no choice involved for eating right. How true. I'm glad your daughter's party went so well, too. ;) That's good of you to take that on when you work full time. Bless you, your daughter, and your friends. ;) 
05 Aug 10 by member: Bible Bliss
Oh Abba I am so happy for you! Woohoo on being good to yourself! Self care!! Huzzah!!! I can not tell you how truly joyful my heart feels for you right now! I have to admit I have been waiting for the movie before reading the book you talked about (lazy Dawn!) but now I am tempted to break my promise of no more books til I read everything I have here. :)  
05 Aug 10 by member: dawn0001
YES. You are on to something here ... remind yourself frequently!!! What do you think of the book?? Glad the party was wonderful. So happy to see you feeling okay about YOU!! 
05 Aug 10 by member: madaboutmoose
The book is all about getting through divorce so I am finding bits and pieces to relate to - my friends and I will be going to the movie next week as well. 
05 Aug 10 by member: abbadabba
Glad to see that you are starting to get out and enjoy life.  
06 Aug 10 by member: chattycathy1955

     
 

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