abbadabba's Journal, 23 Apr 10

Weekend! finally a weekend where I am looking forward to relaxing!

Tonight I am home alone, hanging out with my pets. I am thinking I'll clean my house more - so much clutter! Anyway, I have abandoned the idea that the Girl Scout party will have alcohol, and will focus on getting the menu prepped for that.

So, the divorce is moving along - turns out our mediator was a major CAUSE of stress, always throwing things in over and over to get me and ex-to-be aggravated with each other - not good. Once we got together and hashed out our glitches, we are smooth sailing - well, relatively, as getting divorced is a LOT of paperwork and reflection on a sad state certainly, but one that in this case was going to happen so I am getting used to it.

This week was rough - my daughter is on vacation away from home, I didn't really plan my evenings very well so I am hanging out alone! Boring! Plus my house is a mess! Oh well.

My tulips are blooming and so are the little bluebell thingies - very pretty.

And Fatsecret is back to it's old self - we get so spoiled by good-working technology!

Hope you all had a great day, and have a good day tomorrow too until I see you all again!

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i am sorry to hear about your marriage...happy to see that you are workign through it...have a wonderful fs night 
23 Apr 10 by member: veggies yuk
The splitting up of one's home is always a trying time but it sounds like you are adjusting well. I can relate to missing your daughter. Hope you have a great weekend and get to relax. 
23 Apr 10 by member: chattycathy1955
Too bad that the mediator ... who is supposed to be NEUTRAL ... was adding to your divorce stress but very good that you and your soon to be former husband were able to get together on your own and iron things out. My house soooo needs cleaning and I have been so unmotivated to do it for a while now. Oh the major things get done, like the bathroom, the dishes, the kitchen floor and counters but dusting and sorting through things that need to be filed away has suffered. I'll get to it eventually and go through a cleaning spurt ... in the mean time it is what it is!! LOL!! Do relax. Do take care of you!!! 
23 Apr 10 by member: madaboutmoose
Good for you and your ex to take things into your own hands - in the long run hopefully this will help you guys go on from here - I was feeling the same way about my house so I started attacking it a few weeks ago - has been really time consuming so I have been trying to do something every day and this week I can finally say that I'm starting to see the difference - I have gotten rid of LOADS of stuff - goodwill and garbage both. The clutter was crazy - I still have loads to go but a little at a time - get there eventually!  
24 Apr 10 by member: megan4

     
 

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