Snowy, i am so glad you are getting back into a bed. Can you do some chair exercises to strengthen your legs and hips so the stairs become easier? There are many on YouTube. Your perseverance and dedication are remarkable. I do not know how you do it even with the faith that i myself possess. I truly hope there are days that provide you with peace and happiness. You deserve that. God bless you snowy. On a happy note 12 pounds is not very far away!!!!
08 May 24 by member: Yearofhealth2023
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As a nurse I feel that your situation sounds very bleak. I hope that you can manage some semblance of life out of this plight you are in. I sent a prayer for you. I like what Yearofhealth had to say. She is a very strong lady like you and knows how to live through a nightmare and come through the other side. I hope you are comforted that we care and want something better for you.
08 May 24 by member: -MorticiaAddams
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08 May 24 by member: jenjabba
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I’m so happy that you get to go back into your own bed. That in itself made my day. No husband should lick his wife out. You are so strong. Though I don’t agree with all you’ve allowed, I know your heart is in the right place and you live that man like no one knows. Even him. I pray he will see how truly wonderful you are before it’s too late. ✝️💟
08 May 24 by member: wifey9707
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❤️🙏 Your circumstances bring up so much for me. You are a lovely lady through and through to endure the longsuffering events of your life. I am very grateful for you that your husband is downstairs. I learned the first time that paramedics were unable to quickly extract me from my bedroom through 1950 narrow doors and halls that when I returned from the hospital I needed to be near the front door. The hospital bed will prove a major help. To be able to sit up using the bed will become ever more important as he becomes less ambulatory. If possible, I also highly recommend getting a hospital style table for him to use while in bed. They are much more convenient than a bedside table. I keep my laptop, phone, water, etc. on mine. I also Roku to my laptop rather than watch a separate tv when I am watching alone. We only watch the tv when the family is watching something together. When I watch on my laptop, I use a small Bluetooth speaker beside my ear on my pillow turned down so low no one else can hear it. I use it rather than headphones/earbuds, so I don't miss any family conversations but don't disturb anyone with my shows either. It seems we can get used to anything, But I truly do hope you find you are sleeping better upstairs. This is stressful. You need your rest. May God bless you and keep you. May His face shine upon you and be gracious to you. May He lift up his countainance upon you and give you peace. 🙏❤️
08 May 24 by member: Yippee Ki Yay
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Hearing that you are able to sleep in a bed versus a couch made my heart happy! Although he will still be demanding at least you have a room to be in and not just a common space. I pray that you will find peace soon Snow. Peace be with you!🩷🙏
08 May 24 by member: Diana 1234
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Your 82 live your life the way you want.
08 May 24 by member: danielle0108
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Hopefully this will improve your sleep and health in general. Take your time going up and down those stairs, they can be a workout by themselves.
09 May 24 by member: FatD1960
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I am happy to see you can reclaim your bed. Maybe that will help your back pain some if you can get a good night's sleep in a comfortable place. You're a better woman than I am, Snowy. I understand your commitment to your husband & taking care of him. If I were you, I'd be enjoying that glass of wine at night and probably a few more desserts as well. It is just a matter of time when he won't be able to control your regaining use of more space upstairs....the dresser, closet, etc. Prayers for calm days for you ♥️
09 May 24 by member: SherryeB
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I read your journal entries and hope your situation improves, it reminds me a lot of what my mother went through with my father I am so sorry for your plight. If he ever attacks you again you should call the police and have him removed from your home. Easy for me to say I know. Best wishes to you and many condolences for the loss of your beautiful children x
09 May 24 by member: Pinky4009
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It sounds like your situation is improving some. Sleeping in a real bed has to feel good to your back. Prayers for strength to endure the day to day difficulties of living with your husband and living the best life you can. I hope you are still getting out with the group you mentioned earlier. That has to be good for your spirit.
09 May 24 by member: rhontique
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I hope your doing well snowwhite100
13 May 24 by member: buenitabishop
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