melissatwa's Journal, 07 Aug 20

Today I am thinking about non-scale victories. As we try to balance our expectations with reality and not focus so much on a number, sometimes it is a boost to think about different changes resulting from our fat loss and fitness gained. Some of them are so subtle they are easy to miss! Here are some of the ones that are coming to mind at the moment. It would be wonderfully fun if anyone and everyone could add to the list with their own NSVs!

I can wear tall socks! I can do so without folding them down because they are hurting my very fat calves!

I needed to learn to sleep differently, because I was waking up with my knees hurting. The “padding’ is diminished between them!

I can “steal” the clothing from my 20 something daughters!

I used to weigh around 30 pounds more than my husband, now I weigh almost twenty pounds less! Ok, that is kind of a scale thing.

Working in my yard and garden is not something I dread but that fills me with enjoyment. I can bend and lift and dig and squat and push and rake and then do it again.

I went from busting out of size 16 to wearing some size 6.

I can run!

A 10 mile walk is not daunting in the least!

I wear sleeveless shirts, mini skirts, and shorts. I went for so many years wearing long skirts to hide my fat legs.

I have collarbones and cheekbones!

So, when we get discouraged because the scale isn’t exactly what we would want, looking for the NSVs can lift the spirits! And please, don't see this as bragging... not for you and not for me. We are on a journey to better health or we would not be on this site. I am trying to be encouraged. We have come a long way!

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1637 kcal Fat: 49.15g | Prot: 109.05g | Carbs: 192.96g.   Breakfast: Great Value Half & Half, Norquin Tri Color Quinoa,  Brown Sugar. Lunch:  Ground Turkey (Cooked) , Goya Chick Peas,  Chicken or Turkey Vegetable Soup (Home Recipe). Snacks/Other:  Banana Bread,  Celery ,  Carrots, Kirkland Signature Organic Strawberry Spread, Kirkland Signature Greek Yogurt. more...

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I love this post 🥰🙌💪💪💜💚 
07 Aug 20 by member: jcmama777
I can cross my legs and tie my shoes easily now. 
07 Aug 20 by member: kandyRN
all awesome victories. great inspiration! my 30" shorts are falling off today. and I can set up a 12' scaffold in 10 min now instead of half an hour because I'm stronger than 6 months ago.  
07 Aug 20 by member: one.point.O
I don’t have to take a nap every afternoon anymore. 
07 Aug 20 by member: GibJig
Yes, yes, yes to all of this!!! That's exactly the way to look at it. 
07 Aug 20 by member: Katsolo
Very nice victories! Would love to have some of them apply to me. Beautiful flowers! 
07 Aug 20 by member: Fritzy 22
Fritzy I'll bet y have many. Just don't recognize them. I've walked past a few myself and not noticed.  
07 Aug 20 by member: one.point.O
So many things to celebrate. 
07 Aug 20 by member: Joelmel
Thanks all of you! kandyRN, #One, and GibJig, thank you so much for sharing! The rest of you, don't leave us wondering!! What is your favorite NSV you are happy about today or the one you most want to see?!!! 😁  
07 Aug 20 by member: melissatwa
I can ride my bike 11 miles everyday and do a 30 minute aerobic workout in the afternoon, before weight loss it was tough to ride around the block a few times...I am so thankful! Melissa, ty for pointing these things out to us, what a boost! 
07 Aug 20 by member: Sweet_Marie
That is awesome, Marie! Changes that make us stronger and our lives better are a beautiful victory!  
07 Aug 20 by member: melissatwa
they certainly are Melissa! 
07 Aug 20 by member: Sweet_Marie
I love all of these! You are awesome and that's not bragging! That's truth! 💕💪🏻 
07 Aug 20 by member: davidsprincess
Congratulations! You inspire me. 
07 Aug 20 by member: kclab
I love your list! This is a good reminder for me as I tend to fixated on the scale.  
07 Aug 20 by member: Groatmeal
Oh and my fave NSV? Feeling good in a bathing suit and actually enjoying shopping for one! 
07 Aug 20 by member: Groatmeal
Thank you, Princess! I really so appreciate your encouragement and support! It is such a significant help to me!!!! Thank you, kclab! You have dropped so much weight lately, so a real scale victory goes to you! Groatmeal, you are awfully sweet! Thank you! And goodness, Congratulations on your swim suit body! I'm not sure I will ever be that confident! You have earned it!  
07 Aug 20 by member: melissatwa
Wonderful post. With wonderful NSV’s. Yes, NSVs should be the goals instead of an “ideal” weight. My NSV are my fitness/health numbers showing descriptions as “athletic”. 
08 Aug 20 by member: silkian
I want to come up with a list- but I can't. The only one that comes to mind is that I can use a regular sized towel- but I feel like that one gets used a lot. Other stuff- when I eat "bad" or exorbitant amounts of food- I don't feel like the drive thru people or the cashier is disgusted with me due to my size. You may have heard me say that on my worst and fattest times in life- I would get 2 drinks or act like I was ordering for 2 people because I was so worried what someone would think. Now I'm like- I'll have two of those and supersize it, bitch. (Just kidding. I don't call anyone touching my food bad names- for fear of tampering).  
08 Aug 20 by member: davidsprincess
NOTHING in my closet fits. I can pick something up off the floor without bending my knees. Taking a shower in my bathtub is no longer scary. I can easily clip my toenails (but I really, really miss pedicures). I can wear all my old rings again. 
08 Aug 20 by member: shirfleur 1

     
 

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