WisteriaSky233's Journal, 10 Mar 24

Just a thought....do you really want him reading the letter at work on his lunch break? 

@SherryeB I don't want him reading it here with me. I'm afraid of his reaction. I'd rather him be mad somewhere else.  

You do what makes you safe. When I finally got the courage and divorced my ex I had the sheriff serve the paperwork because I was afraid so you know what is best. 

I hope that everything works out in the best way for you! You are strong! 

proteinpancake, it's her journal & she can write whatever she wants & needs to. Since when do you make the rules? Why is it the know-it-alls always hide their own journeys? 

Hope everything works out for you and he's in a good mood when he reads it...Your a strong woman and God is going to be there with you in all your journeys... 

Proteinpancake, mental health and physical health go hand in hand. If it helps her to talk here and share what she’s going through and you don’t like that then block her account. You aren’t going to like everything you see in life but at that point block out what you don’t want to see instead of commenting and trying to make someone feel bad about their life or what they are doing, that’s just rude. 

me again giving my two cents. I remember being serviced with divorce papers. I wasn't shocked. I called the cops when I served mine. I didn't know how the ex would react either. I had two cop cars arrive at my home. I'm not telling you that you need to call them. watch out for yourself. if he has that much of a temper... for protein pancakes I discussed my divorce because it part of healing. freedom from being judged is needed here. my former spark people team was one of my sounding boards at that time. I needed their loving ears and they gave them to me. they were very supportive. wisteria I'm wishing you the best out come divorce or not. I remember my struggles with a narcissistic monster.  

proteinpancake,how bout you get the hell off here whining and complaining on someone else's journal who never asked your damn opinion in the first place, you have been commenting and trying to make others feel bad bout what they post I've seen couple post like that now...Your annoying to see your comments she's able to post whatever the fuck she wants to God forgive me for that and forgive protein pancakes for her judgment on ppl, I'm sure she could care less what you think about her post if you don't like it just Block her out and I'm gonna start posting a bunch of personal stuff on here in hopes that it will continue to annoy you and you can block me too but at least I will know I've annoyed you so just move along and quit trying to make ppl feel bad... Wisteria, I'm praying and hoping everything works out for you and that you don't have to worry about his narcissistic behavior or how mad he will be and anything else you deserve so much better sweetie.... And you continue to update your journal on anything you want I like keeping up with most ppl here and I pray for ppl going thru things here...so take care of yourself sweetie and don't worry about what haters have to say.... 

Thanks everyone. I am scared about how it will be received but it was pouring my heart out. He was Jekyll yesterday when he came home, he didn't think he had been Hyde in the morning. I am wondering if he forgets he is being angry. 

just so you know I also reported proteinpancakes and it said her post wouldn't be seen anymore I don't care for the bullies in here and will report them all especially when it's uncalled for... 

@saranchrisriley Thanks, I am sweating thinking about the letter and how it will be received. I really want to be free but I am not ready to pull the trigger on living. Hubs would have to do a 180 that lasts and I don't think he can. 

I'm praying for you sweetie. I've been in your same situation but my ex husband also beat on me and it took awhile but I finally had a chance to get away from him and was best decision I ever made now u been married for 10yrs to my hubby now he's a great never raises his voice at me even when I make him mad I pray that you find someone like that when you are ready to move on and that you are treated like a queen and treated the way you should be .... I understand you being stressed obviously anyone would be and I'm praying 🙏 that he doesn't take it very hard and don't get upset and try to call you or anything when he's upset...  

I meant I been married 10yr not u lol dang typos  

Thank you everyone. I cannot block the person either via web or the android app. I have tried both kind. 

proteinpancake - you're another one that can take a flying leap. If you don't want to read content then change your feed view to people you're following only...or just scroll on by and don't read, let alone comment. Your thought process is rigid. The correlation between weight, food intake and movement is closely tied to life stressors. Part of being a member of this community is the support it provides from members with shared experience and struggles. I strongly recommend if this app and how its' users employ it is so offensive to you, then move to MyFitnessPal instead. May you find what you're looking for, just get out of here.  

Beware of these ghost accounts. In the past there were some that befriended people and got into their other social accounts and then shared that info here. It was pretty vicious.  

@liv001 wow that'sstone cold right there. @saranchrisriley As the day progresses my anxiety is through the roof and I am at work trying not to let it show. Granted my bosses and coworkers want me to get out ASAP. The letter is a "time buying exercise."  

protein pancake- you were on someone elses account complaining to them how awful they were and now doing the same bullying crap now. which one is it?  

wisteria- i am wishing you well!! you have friends here who care about your well-being!!