abbadabba's Journal, 01 Apr 10

STRESS = FOOD, NO STRESS = ?

My thought for today is this: is being under stress a reason to over eat? I think overeating from stress is just a bad habit - "bad" in the sense that I am not happy with the results.

Like my mom making her decisions about money where she is happy about what she has done, I would like to be happy about my decisions overall, and with food specifically.

I am finding with my divorce, I am reconnecting with the process of figuring out who I am now. I was married, harried and not taking care of my self - hence, I gained a lot of weight. Now, I am not married. I have less aggravation so I am not so harried. Next, I do need to take care of myself better.

My brother just broke up with his girlfriend of 25 years - I think he and I are in similar situations, so we were exchanging advice. My main advice to him, and to me: start making new friends, finding new places to go, and having a different kind of fun that we have done in the past. His main advice to me was that starting over is hard work! Lol, no kidding!

I quit the Historic farm Museum volunteer job - I signed up for the Historical Society because it has more men! I admit it - I like history, I like men - I think I should maximize my potential to fulfill both of those interests. Just saying.

So, food should be a focus in my weight loss journey, and I am counting calories in my head if not on here - I have been so sick I just couldn't even get here some days! I think I might be better in the next day or two, though, so I am taking it easy today, eating healthy-ish choices, and planning to take better care of me by taking better care of what I am eating.

No fooling. Hope you all have a great April Fool's Day!

View Diet Calendar, 01 April 2010:
1195 kcal Fat: 41.07g | Prot: 52.90g | Carbs: 156.46g.   Breakfast: mini wheats. Lunch: Cheez-it crackers, Cafe Steamers Asian Inspired Sesame Teriyaki Chicken. Dinner: raspberry vinaigrette, butter, mashed potatoes, Lettuce Salad with Assorted Vegetables, salmon. more...

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Hope you are taking good care of yourself and start feeling better soon. Starting over is tough but why not look at it as exciting and full of possibilites. Don't rush it. It will come to you. Great isdea volunteering at the historical society. Gettig yourself out there is a big part of meeting someone. Enjoy today Abba. 
01 Apr 10 by member: chattycathy1955
Abba I like your thought process about the stress. It truly is not an 'excuse' I think ... more about being mindful and making clear and conscious choices. I think I am more apt to make poor choices when I get over-stressed and/or overwhelmed. I also LOVE the fact you signed up for a group with lots of men in it!!! Good for you!!! I hope you are starting to feel better, physicially and emotionally!! 
01 Apr 10 by member: madaboutmoose
I think your entry today was a real breath of fresh air, really clear and honest. I enjoyed reading it and feel that I know you better. I hope you feel better soon abba. 
03 Apr 10 by member: information

     
 

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