DairyKing's Journal, 26 Feb 14

Good Morning, FS Warriors! Slept in till 4:15 this morning. Had a wonderful steak dinner last night, and popped the cork (well, it didn't really pop, in fact, it crumbled) on a bottle of Merlot wine, and drank two glasses. Made me lie down in mellow pastures. Slept like a baby! Kind of jilted Jillian this morning in just doing the warm-up exercises and climbing up on the treadmill. Today, I upped my run/walk (according to schedule) up to Run 3 min/Walk 1 min (X7); then Run 2 min for a total workout of 30 minutes. Then, as is my custom, I walked at an even slower pace till my heart rate dropped below 120. The last couple cycles took my heart rate up to 164, but it was still sustainable, and other than sweating like a wart hog, I did pretty well. Getting a little over 2 miles in, so I'm pretty happy with my progress.

There just doesn't seem to be any relief in sight for these cold temps. Still getting down into the negative numbers at night for the next 10 days. I guess it's no big deal when you work inside, but I am getting a touch of cabin fever. I'm not really in shape enough to take my run outside, but there are a lot of things I'm putting off doing outside until the weather starts accommodating me, as it should.

DGD is getting married on April 29th, and DW is all excited about helping plan the wedding. They're getting married in the church, but I guess the theme is some kind of Redneck option. Everything is going to be done up with camoflauge. I ordered my Mossy Oak Camo Wedding vest yesterday. DW has been spending the nights making bootineers, with some kind of orange flower, brown stem and pearls that would have made any oyster proud (of course, they are not real). Doing up a bunch of small hanging mason jars with elecric candles in them (I'm tasked with capturing them in wire so they don't fall on anyone's head.

I'm often reminded of how many times I lost the motivation to exercise and diet because things just weren't happening fast enough. The long range benefits of it always seemed to evade my thinking. I think a key source of conflict is that most of us have grown up with this expectation of instant gratification. We want it now. We are willing to sacrifice and work hard for it, as long as it happens this week. And then we get on the scale, and no weight loss, or maybe even a weight gain, and we say, "This isn't working for me." We grab the bag of Doritos, head for the couch, turn the TV on and begin one arm excercises from bag to mouth. "Oh, I'm just so fat, I'm so disgusted with myself. I'm never going to lose weight. I'm just going to be a fat cow the rest of my life." I'll bet that kind of talk sounds familiar to some of you. It's kind of ridiculous really. In the business world, we are taught that you can't achieve long range goals unless you make short range goals. The problem with weight loss is that if you make your short range goals too short, you fail and never even get a glimpse of the long range goals. Don't set your short range goals to 1 1/2 to 2 pounds each week, and expect to see those kind of results on the scale every time; you just set yourself up for disappointment. Yes, those might be realistic goals over the long haul, but, with fluctuations, they're not necessarily realistic on a week-by-week basis. If you lost a pound a week, you'd lose 52 pounds in a year. How fantastic is that! But, do you get upset when the scale doesn't show a weight loss of one pound in any given week? If you're getting discouraged and you are making improvements in your eating habits, and being more active, and not seeing an immediate weight loss, maybe you would benefit from going two weeks before getting on the scale, or even if you weight every week, remind yourself that you're not going to lose hope until you see what a month's worth of effort shows. If you make changes in your lifestyle, it will pay off. Every time you make a better choice with regard to what you're about to eat, or do a little more exercise on a regular basis, you will see improvement over the long haul. I guarantee it!

Toodles!

View Diet Calendar, 26 February 2014:
1709 kcal Fat: 60.90g | Prot: 89.65g | Carbs: 212.84g.   Breakfast: Bananas, Honey, Instant Oatmeal, Ocean Spray Light Ruby Red Grapefruit Juice, Coffee (Brewed From Grounds), Great Value Non-Dairy Coffee Creamer. Lunch: Flatout Healthy Grains Multi-Grain with Flax Flatbread, Mustard, Bongards Pepperjack Cheese, ShopRite Pepperoni Slices, Prairie Farms Dairy Fat Free Orange Cream Yogurt. Dinner: Unsweetened Iced Tea, Mashed Potato, Chicken or Turkey and Noodles (Mixture). Snacks/Other: Strawberries, For You Radishes. more...
3082 kcal Exercise: Calisthenics (light, e.g. home exercise) - 10 minutes, Walking (moderate) - 3/mph - 10 minutes, Running (jogging) - 5/mph - 20 minutes, Resting - 18 hours and 20 minutes, Sleeping - 5 hours. more...

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Everything sounds like you are doing very well and congratulations to your family for the addition. Keep up the great work! I admit that I am impressed with the workout with Jillian as after watching several seasons of the Biggest Loser there has never been a moment that I thought I would survive in that arena. Have a great day :) 
26 Feb 14 by member: LadyBea40
Thanks for this post this morning. I have been doing everything right, but got on the scale this morning to see a 2 lb weight gain. I know from experience that what you've said is true, that there will be fluctuations, and in the long run that goal will be reached, but that scale can make you feel like you'll never get there! We have some serious cabin fever here too, and spring seems to just be taunting me! Can't wait to be able to go outside and just walk with the kids again! 
26 Feb 14 by member: lovingmomma
Great job! How do you get up so early every day. I have to get up at 5 and every morning I want to roll back to sleep. 
26 Feb 14 by member: Neptunebch
Neptunebch I was wondering the same thing, 4:15 omgosh! DairyKing, I sure enjoy reading about your rendezvous with Jillian. Just know she will make you pay for jilting her this morning. A Mossy Oak Camo wedding, sounds like it'll be a wonderful "rednecky" time! 
26 Feb 14 by member: KJ_Robinett
I have definitely felt discouraged and disappointed and told myself and that bag of Doritos, "oh well, fat forever..." I did read somewhere that exercise can immediately improve self esteem and body image. I try to stay away from the scale and exercise because then, even if I may not be getting immediate gratification results, at least I *feel* thinner. :)  
26 Feb 14 by member: megmonster
4:15 is late, believe it or not. I'm rushing to get a workout in and still get out the door on time when I get up that late. I should be getting up at 3:30, but the problem is that I don't go to bed until 10. I think I'm going to have to work on that. Yep, I'll show Jillian who she's messing with (as soon as I get in better shape). Believe me, Susan, I always have wanted to roll back over and go back to sleep; I never got over that - even with 27 years in the military. It's just plain willpower; you've got to convince yourself it's worth it to get your butt up. 
26 Feb 14 by member: DairyKing
I am really enjoying your words of wisdom in your last two journals.Thanks. 
26 Feb 14 by member: rockytu
Thought that only happened on U-Tube? 
26 Feb 14 by member: BuffyBear
Great reminder of the reality between instant gratification and staying the course. Thank you. 
26 Feb 14 by member: FullaBella
That wedding idea sounds neat; something different. I like your motivation on the tresdmill; wish I had one especially when the weather is cold. You're doing great! And the steak dinner sounds wonderful. Everyone needs one of them.  
26 Feb 14 by member: springskinny
Always enjoy your journals DK. I'm a daily weigher because it helps keep me honest. Sure I hate the fluctuations up and delight when I see a decline but I know it's the long haul that is important not the short run of ups and downs. That is part of why I decided to focus on 10 lbs at a time. Another way to keep me motivated and not so overwhelmed by the final goal although I clearly know where I'm headed. The instant gratification thing though? Oh I so get that. I have to really remind myself daily, sometimes moment by moment of not eating for impulse. Thanks for the time you take to write.  
26 Feb 14 by member: madaboutmoose

     
 

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