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Observation...even my cat seems to be paying more attention to me as of late. Have I changed?? Am I giving off a VIBE? Other then almost 75lbs loss I feel like I'm still ME? Very seriously... The chef at work - stepped Away from his post to ask me to come for a walk with him on break,just to chat-made a comment about how amazing my hair smelled...another man who also works in my company - i dont know him other then to see him on my nightly walk has made numorous comments about my ambition and drive. Many other dealers, Security Guards and even Co workers I see daily seem to treat me differantly. My husbands friends invite me to parties, email and txt me. I have been invited to hotel rooms, slipped keys... its all flattering but HELLO? Im the same fat fun boisterous loud foul mouthed broad I was a year ago?! The answer to how my hubby feels... He loves me and makes me feel hot and sexy and desirable everyday 225 or 150. HE loves ME and I love HIM more for that then he knows
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69.8 kg
Lost so far: 32.3 kg.
Still to go: 10.8 kg.
Diet followed: Reasonably Well.
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View Diet Calendar, 17 February 2012:
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1223 kcal
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Fat: 38.01g | Prot: 105.66g | Carbs: 109.61g.
Breakfast: milk, cereal. Lunch: Valley Selection: Savory Garlic Pasta, CHICKEN BREAST, campbells. Dinner: Balsamic Dressing, Organic Mixed Greens, Cucumber (Peeled), Hard-Boiled Egg, Cottage Cheese (Lowfat 1% Milkfat), Croutons, Hulled Sunflower Seeds, Beef Steak (Lean Only Eaten). Snacks/Other: Coffee (1 Cream, 1 Sugar) (Medium). more...
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2790 kcal
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Exercise:
Running (jogging) - 5/mph - 15 minutes, Sitting - 2 hours, Driving - 1 hour, Walking (exercise) - 3.5/mph - 1 hour and 20 minutes, Desk Work - 7 hours and 30 minutes, Sleeping - 8 hours, Resting - 1 hour and 55 minutes, Housework - 1 hour and 30 minutes, Walking (brisk) - 4/mph - 30 minutes. more...
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steady weight
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I have experienced this too, though I have not been slipped any keys! However, I DO see that I am treated very differently from when I was twice my size. People don't talk down to me the same way, and a lot more people are interested in me - also for other things than the whole weight loss deal.
...and Kitty Cat is definitely more snuggly...
17 Feb 12 by member: kingkeld
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im not sure if i should be offended or flatterd
17 Feb 12 by member: NewSarah!
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I hear ya Sarah! What's funny is- I should never let anyone decide my destiny- but I've wavered from losing weight this go around because I lost a lot back in 2004 and at the time I was single, no child, was dating men-not women,etc----and you're 100% correct- people come out of the woodworks and start to chase you down and look at you...whatnot. I mean, I wanna look sexy and sometimes I feel I'm not with the right person in my life right now, but it's like- I don't want all those stupid horny men looking at me, gawking, and so forth. Just pisses me off about our society in general. I guess that's why I need to change my mentality to do this more for health reasons. It's like- I looked at Paula Abdul's fan page on Facebook yesterday and good God, she's stunning and all- but girl looks like she needs to eat for a few months. And like thousands and thousands of people are saying how much of an icon she is and how beautiful and sexy she is. Whatever- I just need to do this for ME and leave society out of it! My 2 cents anyway. And good for you girl, hold tight to that man that loves you unconditionally and treats you like a sexy, beautiful woman! Congrats as well!
17 Feb 12 by member: MamaShea2009
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I feel the same way. Should I be offended or flattered. Because before I lost the weight no one was interested. Now I could go into the grocery store and get flat out stared at...even with my kids in tow. I guess let it make you smile but don't dwell on it. This weight loss is for ourselves. And hey, congratulations on having a fantastic husband! Mine loved me at 255 and at 145 (when I was there). Those are good men.
17 Feb 12 by member: calannapy
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Brought tears to my eyes when you said your husband loves you no matter what your weight is..now thats a good man..mine is the same and always encourages me...to be me..(smiling)...:O)
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