WisteriaSky233's Journal, 09 Mar 22

I’m so sorry, being married can be so tough at times. Just keep praying! Keep fighting for him and your marriage. Hopefully he’ll have some type of moment and see the truth of what he’s doing to his body! 

Relationships don't have to last forever. Sometimes we stay in a relationship because we are convinced that that is what we are "supposed" to do; only to find 7 years down the line that we regret sticking around for so long. You know what is best for you. Follow your heart. 

@Mandini78 Well he texted me that the pastor set up a meeting with us tonight against my husband's wishes so I am even more worried about things. @gwzfire We haven't been married a year. Our anniversary is the 28th :(  

Exactly what Mandini said🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽. Wishing you and your family well Wisteria💖. 

Smoking is a turn off. It’s disgusting and terrible for you and everyone around you. I know I’m a former smoker!! I am disgusted at myself for ever smoking. You SHOULD quit for others and not just yourself because smoking affects everyone in your life. 

I'm so sorry, my heart goes out to you while you are navigating this...I don't have any answers, but I can say that you aren't alone in smoking being that big of a deal for you. I told my husband the same thing, it's me or the cigarettes. I don't know if that's the right or wrong thing to do, but I do know that you aren't alone and it's okay to be this upset. I hope that talking it out with a third party (the pastor) will at least help you both think through your options from here  

Wishing you well. 

May I ask if he smoked before you married? How long have you known him? If you have only been married a year you guys may be having " growing" pains. It's hard to adjust to someone else and their habits, moods, and baggage. Maybe the best thing you s to get some professional counseling. Best of luck to you both..💜🙏🙏🙏🙏 

Thank you everyone. I posted a new post. Prayers for continued peace would be appreciated. This situation does not have an immediate end but hoping for our sakes it does reach a positive conclusion.