Annabelle3117's Journal, 16 Mar 14

Good Morning!! Fist and foremost I want to thank all of you from the very bottom of my heart for all the comments yesterday. Ya'll made my day! :-) This journal is long, but should be entertaining.

Yesterday was a good day, my daughter and I donated a total of 24 inches of hair to locks of love and I think that bought me just enough good karma to save my dog from being hit on the road when he escaped later that afternoon lol. If karma is real, I use it on my family members faster than I can earn it! Hoss is my 3-year-old sixty pound (all muscle) boarder collie who is both a total pain in my ass all the time, and the apple of my eye. He was a Christmas gift to me from my husband when he was a pup, a decision my husband has regretted ever since lol. Soooo, I let him out yesterday afternoon to do his business before we left for our evening out, and I had a feeling that I needed to bring him in asap (intuition, perhaps?) so I opened the door and just as I said "Hoss, come here" he spotted some deer across the road and lunged. He managed to snap his collar right in half, and off on his merry way he went. He is lightening fast, and smart. You can't catch a dog that doesn't want to be caught. He kept sprinting through the fields across the street, then the fields behind the house, then up the road, then down the road. He always came back to see what I was doing though, this is a game to him. Using some quick witted reverse psychology when he finally looked up at me long enough to notice what I was doing I ran away from him. He chased me :-) He chased me all the way back home, and I opened the back of the jeep and In my happiest 'talking to a dog' voice I told him we were going to go on a car ride. He jumped straight up into the car, I slammed the hatch.... boom, got ya! Jeep, also doubles as a dog trap. Problem is he was covered head to tow in fresh spring mud. Immediate trip to the bath, now my vehicle needs the same. This dog is lucky I love him, because I don't think anyone else could.

Disaster averted (good looking out, baby jesus), we headed out for an evening on the town. I have gotten exceptionally good at restaurants, I believe this Is going to be one of my key assets when I hit maintenance. Something odd happened though, and I'm wondering if anyone else has ever had this experience, or how I should feel about it. I first ordered a skinny margarita, yummers without the guilt. Then I asked if we could do a half of a bloomin onion or not, the answer was not and we ordered it anyway, but you know how big those suckers are. We ordered our meals, I had a 11oz sirloin, baked sweet potato plain, and a house salad with light ranch. Then the waitress asked if we wanted more rolls, I said no thank you (who needs that much temptation in there life). Then the waitress turns to me and says "You're on a diet, aren't you?" I was flabbergasted! Immediately so many potential responses popped into my head, some not so nice, but to keep it simple I just said yes. Of course we all know the real answer is NO, this is MY LIFESTYLE of eating HEALTHY. She responded with, "Well, you're doing real good hun". Shut up bitch, I know I'm doing good I've lost ninety pounds. I know that's not nice, I didn't say it, but really who asks somebody that in a crowded restaurant?!?! She didn't mean it to be mean, and I'm pretty sure someone overheard and told the manager about it because later on the manager stopped just to ask how our service was. I didn't throw her under the bus, I really don't think she realized how rude what she said was. Still not sure how I felt about all that.

BUT at the end of the night I did good. I ate what I wanted of the blooming onion (not even 1/4) and promptly placed it to the side for the bus boy to scurry off with instead of taking it home for my late night munchies. My eleven ounce steak I couldn't finish. I should have went with the eight ounce, and I will remember that in the future. Just get the size I'm good with, no need to go big or go home because it's a special occasion. I looked at my husband and told him I don't even know who I am anymore because I used to order the sixteen ounce ribeye (don't you judge me) and down the whole thing, with an order of fries, and the whole bloomin onion, and a couple margaritas, and a couple baskets of rolls lol. I would have made a wonderful competitive eater, stage name could have been shaggy. But alas, I have given that up for a better, healthier and hopefully longer life. I don't regret it. I had a lovely evening.

Now I must pick up my kids from grandma's house, balance my budget, grocery shop and go back to mom mode. :-) Hope everyone is having a wonderful weekend!

View Diet Calendar, 16 March 2014:
1296 kcal Fat: 51.02g | Prot: 90.79g | Carbs: 118.51g.   Breakfast: Planters Dry Roasted Peanuts (Package), Banana, Coffee-Mate Original Powder Creamer. Dinner: Heinz Tomato Ketchup, Knorr Rice Sides - Herb & Butter, meatloaf. Snacks/Other: Beatrice Skim Milk, EAS Lean 15 Protein Powder - Chocolate Fudge. more...
2163 kcal Exercise: Resting - 16 hours, Sleeping - 8 hours. more...

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Not having the ability to throw that much food down the hatch has been the biggest advantage for me. I'm down to a 4oz steak along with the salad and tater. Funny how we never realize how we mass consume food. But still order the big stuff. Old habits die hard. Kudos on pitching the onion. Glad you had a wonderful evening. 
16 Mar 14 by member: ClassicRocker
FYI: If you ever want just a taste of Bloomin' Onion, ask for a side of Bloom Petals (as long as your store has the Bloomin Burger on the menu) and they'll give you about a handful of Bloomin Onion and charge you around $2. No rules just right. 
16 Mar 14 by member: plshblonde
Have you seen or do you remember a movie called Funny Farm with Chevy Chase? Where he buys himself a dog (new best friend) and as soon as the dog gets out of the car starts running and never stops. That's what your dog story reminded me of and great job doing exactly what you need to do to get the dog, getting him to chase you. Great job on the food and I'm sorry the waitress was so dense as to not just take your order without questioning why. Have a great day Yolanda. 
16 Mar 14 by member: LadyBea40
Great journal - you were right - entertaining read. Now that my heart has stopped racing for Hoss I can comment, whew. Good on you - not sure what was in the mind of the waitstaff either. Either you've been there and she remembers 16oz gal or she's used to so many people 'going for all of it' rather than choosing mindfully so it's easy to spot? Either way, you're right ... as the tip is based a percentage on the total it's not good to put a person off eating; only decreases the total. That happened to me about a year ago - well, not the question, but I was at a nice restaurant and the Maitre De stopped and asked esp as we'd tried the nightly special. I said, 'It's fabulous, have you tried it?' and he said, 'No, I don't eat food.' I said, 'Ever?' and he explained he was on a liquid diet. Well, good for you Charlie but I don't think that should be getting around a restaurant full of people ordering the FOOD. In my opinion in that instance he should cross his fingers behind his back and say, 'I check every dish before we open to make sure it's prepared to perfection' and not qualify it wasn't done with a taste test. I try to get a 6oz steak now if a 4oz isn't available or anyone to share with; once I caught onto the concept that our stomach is only as big as our fist it put the 'mass' of food into a better measuring perspective. Four oz is about the size of a deck of cards; 2 oz is about the size of a pair of dice... can you tell I have a gambling problem, LOL? 
16 Mar 14 by member: FullaBella
That took alot to not eat the blooming onion cuz I love them but I am also trying to eat as healthy as possible. Great job on not throwing your waitress under the bus. I don't think she meant to be rude, she was trying to pay you a compliment. 
16 Mar 14 by member: cyd69
I got a great laugh out of your errant dog story. My Pomeranian likes to jet out the door if it's left open even a tiny crack for more than a few seconds. The only way we can get him to come back in is to go get a string cheese and hold it out, saying, "Come get your snack!" I can believe the silly waitress' comment. The rest of the world is not as enlightened as us. It NEEDS to be a change in lifestyle and their restaurants are programmed to tempt us with WAY too much food. That is no excuse for drawing attention to your wise choice of no additional bread. If we are going to be in maintenance for the rest of our lives, we will be making those choices into the foreseeable future and I for one don't want people to keep asking me if I'm dieting! I have always been able to bring home half my meal. I've only rarely partaken of appetizers. I always share dessert if I even order it. One drink is my maximum. That's why I'm not losing weight very quickly. I have been aware for so much of my life of just how many calories were in everything that I am only really going down by about 1/4 of my previous. I'll get there eventually. 
16 Mar 14 by member: gilliansings
I want to give the waitress the benefit of doubt. Perhaps if you were in the town that you live in...she recalled you as someone who was once larger (no more). With declining the bread she probably thought that was how you have been losing the weight. She was probably in awe of what you are able to do and your will power. Perhaps she herself or someone close to her struggles with weight loss. Most people have no idea what works and that is why there are so many options out there. Don't be offended...take it as a complement. You look awesome and your confidence shows... 
16 Mar 14 by member: kmunson
Having to side with k. I've had people notice the loss and I jump right in there and brag about it. Then lose them when I tell them how I did it.  
16 Mar 14 by member: ClassicRocker
Plshblonde, I wasnt at outback but I will definitely inquire the next time I am out and about, thank you! Bea, I have never seen it but I will be renting it. I always tell people Hoss is pretty much my Marley, from the movie Marley and me. He truly is lol. As for the waitress, we were out of town so definitely no recognition, she just wasnt the sharpest tool in the shed. I think Bella hit it on the head, in todays day and age a calorie conscious person such as myself must stick out like a clown in a line up of nuns. :-) oh well, who wants to just be another face in the crowd anyway? .  
17 Mar 14 by member: Annabelle3117

     
 

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