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What happened? I'm not sure what? Lack of sleep and 2 many socialising/work nights out that involved alcohol? Whatever it is I FELT the change in my weight - in my jeans. This morning I made a decision to cut out carbs this week - so that I can get back on track. Also on Friday a co-worker who I know isnt my friend - just someone I speak to off and on, pulled me aside and said "yes so everyone thinks you are looking bigger - especially your work pants, your butt..." I said "stop right there, I'm fully aware I am not the small framed skinny girl I was when I started here 5 years ago - but I am also not obese, and I'm also very aware of my little weight gain (which is around my upper abs and back), and if you want to comment on my ass, have you ever heard about squats? My butt is big but not fat...and its the one thing I'm proud of." well - said co-worker looked pretty blown away and this morning has been quite sheepish with me. I'm so fed up of people trying to under mind me! People are so mean! If you aren't a close friend or relative - do not comment on my weight!
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61.9 kg
Lost so far: 0 kg.
Still to go: 9.8 kg.
Diet followed: Reasonably Well.
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Gaining 1.4 kg a Week
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Honestly, if you're at all like I am, I don't really give a f*ck about what other people think of me, my physique, etc. . I exercise & eat well for myself & nobody else. Unless I'm asking for somebody's opinion on my weight struggles, i don't expect to hear any negative comments from anybody. The negative comments stem from pure jealousy. Good for you for putting her in her place! I seriously doubt she'll ever make another comment about your weight again. None of us are perfect. We all fall off the wagon from time to time. I had drinks on Saturday night. Then, after a few, I made poor food choices. It cost me 6 pounds!! If you fall down eight times, pick yourself back up eight times. You've only lost the bottle when you quit...
09 Jun 14 by member: Malgam
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I think I got upset because I knew the comment was made not out of concern but more to bring me down. Like - "ha! let me ruin her day by telling her that her butt is huge!" I'm trying not to let people get to me but I guess it hurts when you know that people are just being mean on purpose (even tif they try to disguise it as "concern"). I really made some bad choices week before last and its showing now. Time to get back up! Thanks Malgam - its good to have support - it really is!
09 Jun 14 by member: littlelissylou
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No problem! People can definitely be mean. Again, I find that those type of people usually display that type of behavior as a result of jealousy and and their own insecurities. Have a great day!
11 Jun 14 by member: Malgam
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