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its been stressful. im only one working partime and i have a family to support and now a new car payment. wasn't expecting my man to be without a job. last week i was annoyed, i work4 days ,and nobody can freaking help around the house. so i did it this weekend. i did take naps this weekend. i never do that..im feeling overwhelmed. anyways its a new week...turn that stress into energy for my workouts! hard part is doing it after work lol , im doing ok. not always easy but im determined.
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I clean my home, cook my meals, and get my kids ready for school n day care before I go to work. It is 100 times better to do it before then after work
18 Mar 19 by member: rosio19
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But I would get ver very very angry if hubby would be outta work n not doing the home chores *
18 Mar 19 by member: rosio19
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Im so not a morning person lol so i just do it after work. Ya im irritated. He usually helps . So idk why he hasnt. Anyways he waiting to start this new job. Hopefully it worth it. Drive people to places. ..i take care of physical and mentally challenged individuals. I love my job helping and caring. Guess i have it easy in mornings. My kids go to school. i dont have all that running around before work.
18 Mar 19 by member: erink78
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I know how hard it can be (mentally/physically) to be the main/only means of financial support. One thing to think, which isn't an excuse, is perhaps he is depressed. It is hard to get the energy to clean even if there is no job to go to. I would simply sit down and talk with him. Explain how you are feeling and ask how he is doing. That is always better than holding resentment (which I know too well). You got this girl and no matter what at the end of the day, everything will work out ❤
18 Mar 19 by member: MrsMJ1981
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I feel your pain. It sucks to know that all the financial responsibility lies on you. Sometimes it is just nice to have a place to vent. I have no advice to offer; just a friendly ear to lend.
18 Mar 19 by member: haolipino
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Thank you guys! I guess it could be depressing no work. He just got the approval last night tto drive as a uber. Maybe he will feel better now. Though i hate that idea of a job, he is doing something that isnt killing his back or hernia. He is a carpenter and construction worker and its taking a toll on him. Being overweight doesnt help him either. I always worry about his health. Anyways i will take your advice not be so resentful and i appreciate so much having a listening ear!
19 Mar 19 by member: erink78
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